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Perry J. Greenbaum 🇨🇦 🦜's avatar

When I was young, all the way through high school, I too saw the good in people, and just ignored the bad, telling myself their apparent and clear bad faults were not important and did not characterize such persons. I am not here talking about situational moral failings, which we can all succumb to, but fatal character flaws such as greed, narcissim and arrogance or hubris.

Ignoring such was both naive and dishonest on my part; it was reading through great literature, including all of the Russian greats and all of George Eliot's novels (sorry, I prefer her to Austen or even Dickens among English writers) while pursing a degree in journalism and Eng. Lit, that I learned a lot about myself.

I had an epiphany; it was not that I thought people were good. It was that I thought that if I had acted as if people were good, they would act accordingly. This never was confirmed as true, other than in my imagination.

This epiphany happened 30 years ago. It was literature that helped me enter that realm of where I saw reality and could live with it. Humans behave in all kinds of ways--good, bad and ugly. Most of us fit into this category.

Literature also taught me much about humility, and the Greek tragedies about hubris. I will end here by saying that I hope your brother sorted things out.

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Tiffany Chu's avatar

I applaud you for this, Annette. Your post reminds me of the book I'm currently reading by Joanna Penn, "Writing the Shadow," which is about channeling our inner darkness into our writing without shying away from it. I'm learning to write the things that scare me, because I think those are the parts that need a light shone on them. Thank you for sharing this. Wonderful post!

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